What I know for sure
It was October 1995 that I saw my first client. She came to my home office in Massachusetts. My teacher and therapist at the time referred her to me. I had protested on the phone that I wasn't ready. However, my teacher said that I was, so I leaned into her certainty....
Reflections on our Find Your Voice Retreat
It's been two weeks since I left the Abbey and our Find Your Voice and Stand Behind It Spiritual Retreat. I came back to the States amid a political silencing of a brilliant woman who spoke out, who stood behind her truth, her voice. One of the keys of the Find Your...
Why do so many women find it hard to take up space?
The 7th Key in the Find Your Voice Process is 'Being Visible'. What this means is that you share your wisdom, your creativity, your voice, and your Self with the world in some way. In other words, you let it be seen and you let yourself be seen. And not in...
Standing Behind Your Voice is always the hardest part
In just 5 weeks I will be back in Oxfordshire to lead the Find Your Voice and Stand Behind It Spiritual Retreat for Women. Can’t wait! So I’ve been contemplating what it means to Stand Behind Your Voice as a woman and would like to share some of my thoughts because...
The two planes we live on and why we must nurture the vertical plane
I’m in the sixth decade of my life and have been working and walking the transformational path of healing and spirituality for forty of these years. My clients tell me there’s a transmission of knowing and Presence and Love that I’m able to give them during our...
Scrambling for certainty in a world of change
"As human beings we share a tendency to scramble for certainty whenever we realize that everything around us is in flux." ~ Pema Chodron This is so true. Recently, I found myself in the midst of some very uncomfortable feelings of uncertainty and it took me a while...
Un-becoming everything that isn’t really you
We hear so much about 'becoming' all that you can be. What if it's also valid to realize that we must un-become all that isn't us? Yes, becoming is part of growing and realizing your Essence and expressing it. Un-becoming, however, is a necessary part of becoming. I...
Key #3 for Finding Your Voice
Let me share a story that illustrates the power of the false self: In the l960's, the United States received a gift from another country, which was a rare and beautiful white tiger named Mohini. For years, Mohini lived in the Washington, D.C. National Zoo, spending...
Do You Know the 7 Keys to Finding Your Voice?
Do you know the 7 keys to finding your voice? The voice I speak of is not the loudest one. It’s not the smartest one. It’s not the most cleaver one. It’s not the rehearsed one. It’s not the one honed in marketing courses to make you money. It’s not memorized.
