Why do so many women find it hard to take up space?
The 7th Key in the Find Your Voice Process is 'Being Visible'. What this means is that you share your wisdom, your creativity, your voice, and your Self with the world in some way. In other words, you let it be seen and you let yourself be seen. And not in...
Standing Behind Your Voice is always the hardest part
In just 5 weeks I will be back in Oxfordshire to lead the Find Your Voice and Stand Behind It Spiritual Retreat for Women. Can’t wait! So I’ve been contemplating what it means to Stand Behind Your Voice as a woman and would like to share some of my thoughts because...
The two planes we live on and why we must nurture the vertical plane
The two planes we live on and why we must nurture the vertical plane I’m in the sixth decade of my life and have been working and walking the transformational path of healing and spirituality for forty of these years. My clients tell me there’s a transmission of...
Scrambling for certainty in a world of change
Scrambling for certainty in a world of change "As human beings we share a tendency to scramble for certainty whenever we realize that everything around us is in flux." ~ Pema Chodron This is so true. Recently, I found myself in the midst of some very uncomfortable...
Un-becoming everything that isn’t really you
Un-becoming everything that isn’t really you We hear so much about 'becoming' all that you can be. What if it's also valid to realize that we must un-become all that isn't us? Yes, becoming is part of growing and realizing your Essence and expressing it. Un-becoming,...
Key #3 for Finding Your Voice
Let me share a story that illustrates the power of the false self: In the l960's, the United States received a gift from another country, which was a rare and beautiful white tiger named Mohini. For years, Mohini lived in the Washington, D.C. National Zoo, spending...
Do You Know the 7 Keys to Finding Your Voice?
Do you know the 7 keys to finding your voice? The voice I speak of is not the loudest one. It’s not the smartest one. It’s not the most cleaver one. It’s not the rehearsed one. It’s not the one honed in marketing courses to make you money. It’s not memorized.
Only When it’s Dark Enough Can We See the Stars
During the Martin Luther King Jr. holiday here in the States, I listened to one of his speeches. One of the lines from that speech was “Only when it is dark enough can we see the stars.” King was speaking to the sanitation workers in Memphis who were on strike.
Does feeling lonely ever block your creativity and stifle your Voice?
You may not be fully conscious of the connection between feeling lonely and expressing your creativity, but there is a very big connection between these two things. Many of my clients, who are highly creative and pushing the envelop of their next evolution come up against loneliness a lot of the time.