What I know for sure

What I know for sure

It was October 1995 that I saw my first client. She came to my home office in Massachusetts. My teacher and therapist at the time referred her to me. I had protested on the phone that I wasn’t ready. However, my teacher said that I was, so I leaned into her...
Reflections on our Find Your Voice Retreat

Reflections on our Find Your Voice Retreat

It’s been two weeks since I left the Abbey and our Find Your Voice and Stand Behind It Spiritual Retreat. I came back to the States amid a political silencing of a brilliant woman who spoke out, who stood behind her truth, her voice. One of the keys of the Find...
Why do so many women find it hard to take up space?

Why do so many women find it hard to take up space?

  The 7th Key in the Find Your Voice Process is ‘Being Visible’.    What this means is that you share your wisdom, your creativity, your voice, and your Self with the world in some way.  In other words, you let it be seen and you let yourself be seen.  And...
Standing Behind Your Voice is always the hardest part

Standing Behind Your Voice is always the hardest part

In just 5 weeks I will be back in Oxfordshire to lead the Find Your Voice and Stand Behind It Spiritual Retreat for Women.  Can’t wait!   So I’ve been contemplating what it means to Stand Behind Your Voice as a woman and would like to share some of my thoughts because...
Scrambling for certainty in a world of change

Scrambling for certainty in a world of change

“As human beings we share a tendency to scramble for certainty whenever we realize that everything around us is in flux.” ~ Pema Chodron This is so true.  Recently, I found myself in the midst of some very uncomfortable feelings of uncertainty and it took...